feat: allow three cumulative selection timeouts per match

tests/match-controller.test.ts

@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ test('local bot runs countdown, turns, result and persistence without Socket.IO'
 });
 test('timeout records a loss once and local leave records forfeit', async () => {
   const h = harness();
-  try { await h.controller.start(); await h.clock.advance(7000); assert.equal(h.recorded[0].outcome, 'loss'); assert.equal(h.recorded[0].reason, 'timeout'); }
+  try { await h.controller.start(); await h.clock.advance(12000); assert.equal(h.recorded[0].outcome, 'loss'); assert.equal(h.recorded[0].reason, 'timeout'); }
   finally { h.controller.destroy(); }
   const other = harness();
   try { await other.controller.start(); await other.controller.leave(); assert.equal(other.recorded[0].reason, 'forfeit'); assert.equal(other.recorded[0].outcome, 'loss'); }